Whether you are backpacking in China, or Poland or The Democratic Republic of Congo, travel always brings about unexpected friendships and relationships. Dating has changed down the years and the modern techniques such as dominant and submissive sexual relationships are becoming more and more frequent. But it doesn’t only start online. You could be munching some dim sum in a bar in Hong Kong only to be chatted up. You could go for a simple massage in Chongqing only to find your masseuse wants to touch a few more parts of your body and not just your back and legs. You might be on a night train from Dandong to Beijing and find yourself teamed up with a little Chinese mind ready for a spot of slap and tickle. A kiss can lead to anything…
Let’s not neglect the magical sexual world of bdsm or indeed the idea of mistress dating. Of course that is the short name for this modern sexual phrase, dominant, submissive.
The Modern World of Dating In China…and Beyond
Here are some techniques to follow to maximise your emotions and orgasmic thrills in the BDSM world in China.
1.Experiment
Try different techniques. Use your imagination and experiment with your partner in ways you can’t yet imagine. Don’t be afraid to use your imagination and look beyond traditional techniques. Whether it’s using substances such as oil, chocolate or even alcohol to spice up your love life. You’re both adults so anything goes – close the door and experiment. It is also a good idea to talk about sex – don’t just have sex, discuss moves, positions, reactions, what to wear etc. You could do foreplay, or surprise your partner by dressing up in a crazy way. Let your hair down and be creative!
2.Keep It Safe
You’re delving into a world of craziness but there is one constant you must adhere to. This is keeping yourselves safe. Don’t hurt your partner and tell them if they start to hurt you. Of course in the sadist and masochistic world, there is room for a little bit of manoeuvre but we need to remain fit and healthy. And don’t forget to stay safe from diseases too. Wear a condom, clean your fannies and willies regularly and use medications if you need to. It’s very important to stay safe and healthy no matter whether you are meeting by chance face to face, or using a sexy site like subs-and-doms.com or indeed a more mobile phone related app such as Tinder. Also ensure that when alcohol is involved, you don’t over indulge. Cheers!
3.Have Fun
And the best thing of course is to ensure you have fun. Sex should no longer be a taboo subject and therefore you should feel confident to express yourself and have fun. Sex should be one of the more pleasurable and enjoyable things we have as humans so please enjoy it and maximise your senses. If you fall in love, marriage maybe only a step away. Imagine hiking in Kunming together with your new found partner before settling in Guangzhou to start a family. The world is your oyster!
That’s it for you today. Remember that sex is one of the most beautiful feelings we have in life so enjoy it as best as you can and keep visiting China.
